aquathlon: Hi Topher. It might be useful (for me, too).
How to Start a Bromance (adapted from http://www.wikihow.com/Start-a-Bromance)
Step 2
Bond with the bros. Taking the friendship up a notch from acquaintance towards bromance is something that the “typical guy” often struggles with, so here are the basics:
Spill information that you normally “keep in the vault.” A solid bromance should mean that you will have a trusted ally who you can really be yourself with and talk about things that are typically off limits not only to others, but possibly your significant other.
Ask for advice. It not only shows your buddy that you respect his opinion, but it also makes him feel more invested in how things turn out.
Keep it mutual. You don’t want to be blabbering about your life when you know he probably has a secret or two he could share. Ask him how things are going, especially if your friend seems out of character. Don’t prod; a simple “You seem off, dude, is something up?” should do the trick. If he says he’s fine, leave it be.
more steps to come, and remember, these are only suggestions… there are many ways to start a bromance, and many types of bromances… ‘topher ;)
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rclancy123: I’ve a serious bromance with my friend! Really want to suck him off and other stuff. We told each other our cock sizes and stuff but I wanna suck his! I’m going to his house soon and will probably sleep in the same bed!
hoping it’s gone well for you. tell us the details, if you like!… ‘topher ;)
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*********@aol.com: First: love your site. Where is the Broadway pic from? Thanks, Jerry
thanks for the kudos, and as for the other, i don’t know, so i’m sending it out to the group… tell us, bros!… ‘topher ;)
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A.V. <**********@gmail.com>: Almost, but ….
I went to college in Kentucky. My best bro from high school, whom I was in love with, backed out and ended up in a different school but I convinced him to transfer to where I was. So come the spring semester, he was living in the dorm 2 floors below me. One night I was trying to be good and I was doing laundry and homework when he decided to go party with some other guys we went to high school with off campus. About 9 that night I got a call from, let’s call him Rick, and asked if I could come pick up my bro because he had gotten drunk way to quick. He had hard liquor and beer and he apparently got some special brownie mix. Rick said he was wasted and in the bathroom floor moaning, “Take me to Big Al, he’ll take care of me”. (Yes, I was called Big Al). I told Rick that I couldn’t leave my laundry and asked if he could drop him off.
I met them outside the dorm and my Bro was definitely out of it. We managed to get him to my dorm room and laid him on my bed. He appeared to be passing out so I went out in the lobby with my room mate to watch one of the other guys “light” his farts with a lighter. He was blonde and tan and wearing tighty-whities. Needless to say he succeeded and was soon shedding his undies as they lay on the carpet burning. There he stood naked in front of 30 bros, some dressed, some partially dressed and the rest barely dressed, shaking his dick as he jumped up and down in a panic thinking his junk was on fire too. He actually turned around, bent over and asked everyone to look and make sure he wasn’t burnt. I didn’t mind the smell of burning hair, because you could simply smell the testosterone in the air in a room full of freshmen boys.
In the meantime, my bro had rolled out of bed and crawled to the hallway where I turned and saw him laying and moaning. I went back and drug him back to bed and he continued to wail and moan. I climbed on his chest and lightly smacked his face trying to get him to sober up and wake up if he wasn’t going to pass out. My room mate laughing at me as I sat on his chest lightly slapping him. Since then, I have found that I actually enjoy slapping a boy around to make him mind but that’s another story for another forum. Eventually I realized he wasn’t going to stop and my room mate suggested we strip him and throw him in the shower. I actually got a little scared and excited. I was worried that by doing that, I would become uncontrollable myself and cum directly in my pants and all would find out that I’m queer. I also loved the thought of stripping my best bro from high school whom I had fallen in love with and seeing him naked and wet in the shower. The thoughts of “me” biting the bullet and getting wet and watching my bro and making sure he didn’t drown in a shower was overwhelming.
Things never got that far though. I got his shirt off as he laid there and his shoes and socks and finally his jeans. There is was in nothing but a pair of white Hanes. He shivered a bit and acted like he was cold. So I actually took a blanket and covered him up. He curled up and kind of snuggled himself and became quiet. I knew that had done it … no shower tonight for us.
At bedtime, I ended up telling my room mate that I would just sleep on the floor and let my bro rest and recover. Even though in his state, I know he could have slept up-side-down and the hard flat thinly carpeted floor would be rough. It was worth it for the bro I loved. Then laying there in the dark I started having bad thoughts again. I asked myself if I should reach up under the blanket and check out in the dark what my bro was hiding between his legs. It kept me from going to sleep. I finally decided that it would be wrong and unethical to have done that to him and went to sleep.
Today though, I often go to bed and fantasize about that night and fall asleep thinking that if I could have done it all over again, what would I have done? I think that I would have taken him to the shower first then undressed him? Thus attributing the shivers to being in a cold, tiled bathroom and guaranteeing that I would see him wet and soaked and then having to dry him off with my hands before putting him to bed! Then maybe even laying there and snaking my hand up under the blanket and searching and exploring. Today, I know I would be guilty.
So here’s my question to you [all] … have you ever crossed the line and touched a bro without him knowing it? Someone who was either straight like my high school bro or even a gay or bi one?
what a great subject for all of you to answer… can’t wait to see the resulting confessions!… ‘topher :)
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laserdawg1981: dear bob i think this is the tumblr site nick was talking about: facespitsnipscocksballsandbutts.
thanks for the update bro. i follow that site, some great stuff, and i think you’re right, that’s the site nick needs… ‘topher :)
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bgreenspan04: Honestly, congratulations on possibly the best tumblr. Ever. Sexy. And funny as hell? Yes, please and thank you.
i will absolutely take all of those accolades! thanks bro!… ‘topher :)
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able-stablehand: When I was seventeen, I agreed to suck my boyfriend while he drove his ‘57 Chevy pickup “pe[d]al to the metal.” We hit 100 mph about the time he came in my mouth.
talk about “american pie”… thanks for the share bro!… ‘topher :)
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misterwimberly: Love B.O.B. - Question - Where are you located? Would love to find a bro to just chill naked with. Be natural, the way bros are. You ever thought of trying to connect bros in different cities? Since so many of your readers are like minded, would be so cool to be able to chat.. PS - Im in L.A. ;-)
in washington state here, with frequent treks to oregon, idaho, BC, and infrequent trips to LA, SF, PS, SD, SLC, DC, NYC, and every so often, international travel have definitely thought about connecting bros, but would be a big database, and so far, beyond the capabilities of tumblr. maybe if/when BOB moves to its own domain, there can be a bro-for-bro or travelin’ bros section… ‘topher :)
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tokyorumours: my secret: I am single…
you and quite a few others, and that’s when bros come in extra handy, sometimes literally… ‘topher ;)
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George (***************@btopenworld.com): Me and my Best Bro - I just wanted to share with you how close me and my Best friend are… we are so alike and you can not get us apart … we have kissed a lot, we normal do after a few drinks LOL but there is one night I want to tell you about… we were out in a night club the other night and we were drinking, there was a big group of us out that night including his girl friend … he knows I’m gay but he really doesn’t care because we have our bro love that keeps us together … so in the night club like 2-3 hours in we were all chatting and I caught his eye and he come over and we where having a chat … I hadn’t seen him for a long time as we both work away from one another … then he told me how much he missed me and loved me and I told him the same back. We kept chatting away and then he grabbed me through my jeans, I looked at him and he just smiled at me. He took his hand away so a grabbed his hand and put it back and made he have a good feel … we just smiled at each other and it lasted maybe 20 second but it felt amazing. A bit later on we all had a group photo and he come a stood next to me … we put are arms around each other as you do in a photo LOL and then I slipped my hand down in to his back pocket and had a good feel of his amazing ass. and again we just smiled at each other. At the end of the night we shared a very strong hug and then we both went back to are own homes. I do really love him and would never change anything we have together. I thought I would share our Bromance with you x x
“we have our bro love that keeps us together” well said!… ‘topher ;)
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voidofsecrets: Dear Bob, I love this blog! It reminds me of all the amazing fun and exciting “experiences” I’ve had with my local #tophers! And it perfectly illustrates the beauty of bromance, and what all guys need in a bromance: SEX,Sex,sex! Sincerely, Void
thanks for the kudos bro, and nice to hear your take on what bromance requires, i know there are a lot of opinions out there… ‘topher ;)
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d*wnf*rs*menafter: Hey man - Just thought I’d say your blog is awesome. I’m Bi, but not out. My best friend knows about me, only because there’s been a couple times when we would jack each other off. He sure was fun toy lol but he ended up moving which sucked ‘cause he used to live a couple houses down. We still hang out from time to time, but haven’t had those good ol’ times like we use to.
thanks for the kudos, and for sharing, bro… he’s your bestie, so who knows, he may come around again…. topher ;)
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john (*******@aol.com): Learning about a friend
Back when I was just starting to come out I was scared to tell one of my best friends from High School. He was dating a mutual friend and she knew so she talked me into talking to him. Nervous as hell we went to a restaurant and I told him. Chose the place so just in case he wanted to beat my ass I was protected. He changed right away in how he talked to me. He was the classic Italian stereotype (suck my dick, kiss my ass, and such rolled off his tongue like water).
As time progressed he started to talk to me more. One night he asked to go “Out to one of my bars”. I was like ok. About 3 months later he started asking me questions like “why guys?” ” what is like to kiss a guy?” I answered all his questions openly and honestly. We made it back to our old routine of hanging out and crashing at each others house and just like it used to be.
We went out this one night and had enough to drink that I had to stop so I could drive us home. We were at a straight bar all night. Well we were laying down in his bed talking then he let slip something that I was not ready for. “Look at this, what our conversation has done” I was like what? Turning over he was laying there covers off and a boner in his briefs. I had seen him soft just not hard. Impressive cock as it may be I was actually at a loss for words.
I got up and went to the bathroom put myself together asking the normal, is this happening? What should i do? (He was still dating the same girl I was friends with). I decided to go back in. He was covered up and facing the wall. I knew I needed to fix this. I started rubbing his back. He laid flat on his back no words spoken. As I got near his ass he began to raise it up. I knew what I had to do. I reached under and found a raging hardon. I began to rub through his underwear. He turned over quickly. Without thought or words I began to suck his cock. He was trying not to cum but finally exploding down my throat without any warning. He pulled up his briefs and went to bed.
We didnt talk about it for week until we were on way to get his girlfriend. He let me know I gave better head than any girl he has been with. He didnt want it to happen again though (ok). That night I crashed at his place and slept on the couch. I was sleeping when I felt something. Open my eyes to him jerking me off. I pretended I was asleep until I couldnt anymore. He began to lick the tip of my cock. I opened my eyes back up and said simply ” no teeth please”. He began to laugh. For not sucking a cock before he was pretty good at it. Figured he was listening to the comments I made about the good points and bad points of head. I let him go until I had to give some direction. After I came he asked me, if we could try more. I grabbed his cock and started sucking through his bulging shorts. But, I was not going to let this go with out pushing his limits. As a was getting face fucked by 8 inches of Italian meat I started rubbing down his crack to a tight hole that was not ready for me. I began fingering his ass and he shot like a rocket after I got passed my second knuckle. Screaming as he came. This was the first time I had ever seen a guy collapse after cumming.
It didn’t take long until we were fucking 2-3 times a week. No one learned anything about until one night his girlfriend came over unexpectantly. I was getting power fucked when she walked in on us. I didnt know what to do. He jumped up and she just looked at us and asked”How long?” He said 4 months and I love you both. She walked up to me and kissed me and said only if we are all together.
This lasted about a year until they broke up. Eventually we drifted apart. I ran into him a couple of years later. He was married with 3 kids. He moved to a city up north. I was sitting in a bar up there. I didn’t even know it was him. A bad drag came and sat next to me. He opened his mouth and I knew it was him in an instant. We sat there for hours talking about our lives since we had drifted apart. He got a girl pregnant and moved to her area. He missed sex with me and started going to the local gay bar and not getting attention from the guys there. So one day he went to a salvation army and got some womens clothes and started meeting guys. He would pick em up and have sex with them and go back home. Amazing to me how life can change someone over time.
wow, i was excited and happy, then surprised, then shocked, then sad… amazing what can happen over the course of our lives, with bros so close to us… ‘topher
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(I don’t see how to tell you something anonymously but this ID is sort of anonymous so here’s the thing I’ve never told anyone…) I lost my virginity in the main library of the OSU campus. It was a blow job in a stall from a guy who really knew how to give one. Now that I think about it, I had a lot of sex in that building. Ahh college.
thanks for sharing it with us, bro, and see, completely anonymous… ‘topher ;)
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Bob (Bee@me.com): To the bro asking question, It’s corbin fisher!
many thanks!… ‘topher ;)
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