Best Of Bromance

voidofsecrets: Dear Bob, I love this blog! It reminds me of all the amazing fun and exciting “experiences” I’ve had with my local #tophers! And it perfectly illustrates the beauty of bromance, and what all guys need in a bromance: SEX,Sex,sex! Sincerely, Void

thanks for the kudos bro, and nice to hear your take on what bromance requires, i know there are a lot of opinions out there…     ‘topher ;)

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(I don’t see how to tell you something anonymously but this ID is sort of anonymous so here’s the thing I’ve never told anyone…)     I lost my virginity in the main library of the OSU campus. It was a blow job in a stall from a guy who really knew how to give one. Now that I think about it, I had a lot of sex in that building. Ahh college.

 

thanks for sharing it with us, bro, and see, completely anonymous…     ‘topher ;)

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cornelisd: Dear Bob. So I may ask anything… Well, how long can you hold an erection in a[n]… ass without moving?

bi-a-piggy: Which of your bros (that you haven’t been with) do you want the most? If he suddenly and willing was in your bed naked, what is the most kinky, dirty, freakiest thing you would want to do to him or have him do to you? Please try to be as detailed/graphic as possible. ~Bi.A.Piggy~

adapted from “guide to getting it on” by dr. paul joannides. very curious what you’ll all have to say… take your time and answer as few or as many things as you like… the list can be overwhelming so i’ll reblog 1-2 questions a day on twitter with weekly reminders (here and there). in one month i’ll compile all the answers and post a full recap. you can be anonymous if you like, in your answers, just let me know.

1. How old are you?
2. Please describe yourself as totally straight, mostly straight, it depends on the day and time, mostly gay, totally gay or ???
3. If you are currently in a relationship, how long have you been together?
4. If you are currently in a relationship, how would you rate the sex and how often do you usually have sex?
5. Approximately how many sexual partners have you had?
6. How many partners have you had casual sex with? (Casual sex = sex where you were just doing it to enjoy the sex without wanting a more involved relationship.)
7. Do you use social networking to hookup for sex? If so, is there a process or scenario that works best for you?
8. Have you had any funny or embarrassing experiences using condoms? If so, please explain. If not condoms, then what kind of contraception are you using? Any thoughts about it?
9. If you use condoms, are there any problems you sometimes have with them?
10. Please tell me a few things about yourself or your life.
11. What goes through your mind the first time you see a new partner’s vagina/vulva and/or penis/balls?
12. If you had to choose between receiving oral sex or having vaginal/anal intercourse—and your partner was good at both—which one would you choose and why?
13. What’s your record for the number of times you’ve masturbated in 24-hours? Was there a particular reason, or was it just one of those days?
14. How do you feel about a partner watching YOU masturbate? If a PARTNER masturbates in your presence, how do you feel about it?
15. Please describe one or two of your best sexual experiences.
16. What are your biggest turn-offs when having sex?
17. Do partners ever ask you to do things sexually that you don’t want to do? If so, please explain.
18. If you’ve had a one-night stand, what was the sex like and would you do it again?
19. If you’ve had sex when you were drunk or stoned, what was it like?
20. Are there types of non-vanilla sex that you enjoy? If so, what and how often?
21. How important to you is cuddling and having intimate conversations with a sexual partner?
22. If there is anything you could change about your PARTNER’s (or a recent partner’s) vagina/vulva or penis/balls/etc, what would it be?
23. If there is anything about YOUR penis or testicles you could change, what would it be? Followup - is there anything about YOUR genitals a partner has ever mentioned they’d like to change?
24. Have you had anal sex? If so, can you describe how it feels vs. vaginal intercourse?
25. If you’ve had anal sex, do you think it’s because your partner really wanted to have it, or was s/he just doing it because s/he thought you wanted to? Please explain.
26. What do you like and dislike about kissing a partner? Do you spend much time kissing?
27. How important is friendship in your sexual relationships?
28. How important is romance in your sexual relationships? What are some of the things you find romantic?
29. Do you have a favorite sexual position? If so, what is it and what makes it better for you than other positions?
30. Do you like to change positions when you are having intercourse?
31. What traits do you find most attractive in a partner? What traits do you dislike?
32. What would make your PARTNER a better lover?
33. What would make YOU a better lover?
34. How do you know when it’s time to breakup with a partner?
35. Have you ever had sexual feelings towards another guy? If so, please describe?
36. Have you ever had sex with another male? If so, what did you do and what was it like for you?
37. Have you ever lied to a partner? If so, about what?
38. Have you ever fallen in love with someone else while you were in a relationship? What did you do? How did it affect your relationship?
39. What advice would you give to a PARTNER to improve their oral sex skills? Followup - what advice have you been given to improve YOUR oral sex skills?
40. Skip, sorry, was the same as 34 when i combined the various versions.
41. Doctor question #1. Have you ever discussed sexual issues with your doctor(s)? If so, how did it go?
42. Doctor question #2. If you had the ideal doctor who was helpful and never judgmental, what are some of the questions you would ask?

again, answer what you want, and have FUN!     #topher ;)

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come on now, #bros deserve good-natured fun-poking too…     #topher ;)

mountainbanana: Any advice for first time bottoms?

robroy5044: After 15 years of adventures, my bro and I were making each other feel good: I had his cock in my mouth and he was working his fingers into my ass and I blurted out that I wanted him to fuck me. I’d done read up on it so I got my head down and my ass in the air and coached him on how to slowly enter me and work me open. He was impatient and slammed the last few inches into me making me yelp in pain. I want to send him the book “Bend Over[!: The Complete Guide to Anal Sex for Men!]” so he doesn’t kill me next time. What do you think?

bimike: I’ve had a construction buddy for 7 years… We work together on and off. We have an extremely close bond but have had no sexual contact. Our understanding of each other is intense and we both anticipate what the other needs when we are working. He has been naked in front of me out of a shower and seemed very comfortable with it. He sneeks a peak when I piss. I love him and I know he loves me. Is this a bromance? Why no sex?

hungrymen - I had a bud when I was active duty army, we hung out all the time and he and everyone else knew I was gay. While we were stationed together he was the only guy that was comfortable enough to take a shower with me especially once most guys thought I liked to look at ‘em. But he used to make comments about my dick size and about other random things. We did absolutely everything together and one night we were having dinner and just bull shittin’ and hangin’ out on post together and while we were out eating dinner he was making inappropriate comments about me and our friendship and such, so when we were dome eatin’ I followed him to the bathroom to ask if he had a problem with me or something but instead he ended up telling me to fuck him in the bathroom of a rather busy on-post military restaurant. After a few years we ended up talkin’ again and that tends to be what we end up talkin’ about, however I believe he refuses to admit to himself that he likes it because he refuses to see me as even just a friend now, even though he tells me he thinks about having a relationship with me.

a very interesting tmi tuesday admission… as a longtime military brat, i’m very used to on-base antics, shows of masculinity, hazings, etc. but my experience is mostly in the DADT era or before. this new modern era where everything’s all OK throws me for a loop still, even as much as i advocate and believe in full male bonding. i’m curious if you did indeed fuck him, at the restaurant or somewhere else later, and when you say he refuses to see you as just a friend, does that mean your friendship is over, or it’s moved on to some in between friends/lovers grey area, without sex? i’m genuinely fascinated and could hear so much more…  topher ;)